Have you been feeling like...


~ You're Going Through the Motions & Life feels Routine or Boring...during SEX or Other Life Areas?

~ You're doing things out of Obligation, Duty, or because you "Should"?

~ You're Checked Out, Numb, or Disconnected from your Body and/or Partner?

~ You're Sacrificing your Own Needs for the Needs of Others?

~ You don't feel much Pleasure or Desire but not sure how to change?

If you answered YES to any of the questions above, you are not alone. So many of us get caught up trying to meet the many expectations and obligations (During Sex & In Other Areas of our Lives) put on us by our lovers, friends, family, jobs, society, and religion, to name a few… 

Over time, this can lead to depression, anxiety, sadness, resentment, loneliness, and feeling totally disconnected from ourselves and others. & that's no fun...

If you ready to take control of your life and learn to live in ways that are more authentic, honoring, and pleasurable to you, Sex Therapy & Relationship Therapy may be right for you!  I provide Sex Therapy & Couples Counseling in Oakland, Berkeley, & other surrounding cities in the East Bay! 

Get Support & Skills for Challenges with:



  • Feeling Disconnected
  • Communication Challenges
  • Attachment Issues (insecure/avoidant)
  • Old Resentment & Hurts
  • Frequent Arguments
  • Little-No Sex (Sexless Marriage)
  • Mis-matched Libido/ Sex Drive
  • Cheating/Affairs
  • Navigating Alternative Relationships (ie:Polyamory / Open / Non-Monagamy)



  • Stress
  • Anxiety
  • Dating
  • Sexuality
  • Overwhelm
  • Trauma / (Sexual, Attachment, PTSD) 
  • Grief & Loss
  • Codependency
  • Life Transitions
  • Low Self Esteem/Worth
  • Sadness & Depression



  • Erectile Dysfunction
  • Orgasm Challenges
  • Performance Anxiety
  • Low-No Sex Drive/Libido
  • Mis-matched Libido/ Sex Drive
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Early Ejaculation
  • Porn Addiction
  • Shame about fantasy / sexual desires
  • Confusion / questions around sexuality
  • Lack of experience / skill
  • Curiosity around Kink/ BSDM & Alternative Lifestyles

So You Can:


INCREASE your confidence & self-esteem in all areas of your life

OVERCOME negative beliefs and patterns that sabotage your happiness

RELEASE shame & judgement around your sexuality and desires

CONNECT deeply with yourself and others to increase intimacy and pleasure

COMMUNICATE in ways that help you and others feel heard, understood, and more connected

LEARN new techniques to improve and expand what’s on your sexual menu

Feel MORE:

Passion & Pleasure


Playful & Alive


Seen, Heard, & Understood


Self-Love & Confidence


Deeply Connected


Joy & Inner Peace


Meet Victoria King, LMFT

Victoria King, LMFT Ready for More

Are You Ready for More...?

Whatever it is, YES you can have it! The possibilities are endless if you dare to ask for MORE of yourself and others.

I work with individuals, couples, partners, and more-somes to empower themselves around their sexuality and to deepen intimacy in all their relationships. I especially love helping those who find themselves feeling disconnected or in sexless relationships to re-awaken passion and desire so they can experience more love, pleasure, and better sex! Folks of all genders/ abilities/ sexual orientations/ sexual preferences/ lifestyles are welcome!

I've been in the counseling field for over 10 years as both a Counselor and Coach in the Bay Area of Northern California. I offer a unique blend of powerful modalities to give you the tools, skills, and support that best meets your needs and goals. 

I would be honored to support your journey. Contact me for a Complimentary Consultation Call to see if this work is right for your needs. 

You can read more about me in my Bio by clicking the red button below or visiting my Psychology Today profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/406722

Ready to Get Started or Need More Information?

Counseling and Coaching is tailored to each individual's situation and I would love to learn more about yours! The best way to have your questions answered and see if this work is right for you is to schedule a Complimentary Consultation Call. Click below to schedule your no obligation call now!

Location Information


Hours: Tuesday - Saturdays 11:00am - 8:30pm 

(by appointment only)

6333 Telegraph Ave, Ste. 200, Oakland CA 94609


Online Counseling:

Get the support you need from the comfort of your home! Why hassle with driving and parking? Online Counseling is Convenient, Secure, and Saves you Time, Money, and Energy!